I want to thank everyone who took the time to read my last post. Especially to all those who took the time to leave such thoughtful, caring, and supportive comments! You've helped me so much! I've learned a lot and found out that many of us are going through or have gone through very similar situations. I feel like I'm in a totally different place mentally and emotionally because of all of you!
I really struggled with whether or not to post last week about what I was dealing with. I had no idea if anybody would be interested or or if I'd even hear from anyone. It turns out that I didn't need to worry. In fact, the response was amazing! I'm stunned by how many people I've heard from and at how long and thoughtful the comments are. I not only received comments on my blog and my Facebook post but I also through private messages on Facebook, emails, texts, phone calls, and people at my stitch group gathering who talked with me about it. I've learned a lot and I feel more connected and supported more than ever before. It's incredible!
It really lifted me up to have so many people tell me that they saw me as a positive, caring, and good person. And, that they were surprised at what I'd been through as a child. Hearing that others look at me in such a positive light helps to melt away some of that pain and slow down all those memories that tend to replay over and over in my head. Thank you...thank you...thank you!
One thing I love the most about what's come from posting about my situation is how others are now feeling like they're not alone. And, how many of us are now supporting one another through this chapter of our lives. It really is surprising how many people had similar situations growing up and at how many are going through similar things to what I am now. It's so much better going through these things together! We will get through this!
One of the comments that touched me the most was a message on Facebook. Her mother was unkind when this person was growing up and her mom only continues to get worse. My post moved her to tears and she thanked me for putting into words what she'd felt her whole life. Wow! That's powerful! I had no idea that my post could have done that but I'm so grateful that it did.
Again, thank you all so much for your love and support! It means more than words can say!
It really lifted me up to have so many people tell me that they saw me as a positive, caring, and good person. And, that they were surprised at what I'd been through as a child. Hearing that others look at me in such a positive light helps to melt away some of that pain and slow down all those memories that tend to replay over and over in my head. Thank you...thank you...thank you!
One thing I love the most about what's come from posting about my situation is how others are now feeling like they're not alone. And, how many of us are now supporting one another through this chapter of our lives. It really is surprising how many people had similar situations growing up and at how many are going through similar things to what I am now. It's so much better going through these things together! We will get through this!
One of the comments that touched me the most was a message on Facebook. Her mother was unkind when this person was growing up and her mom only continues to get worse. My post moved her to tears and she thanked me for putting into words what she'd felt her whole life. Wow! That's powerful! I had no idea that my post could have done that but I'm so grateful that it did.
Again, thank you all so much for your love and support! It means more than words can say!
4 comments:
This is the best of the internet. It's so nice to know you are not isolated, isn't it?!
I am so very pleased for you that this has helped you and has helped others too! I hope that it keeps on helping you too if, as and when you need or want to share more. xx
So glad to hear this has been good therapy for you. We are all stumbling through life!
I am so happy with the response to your blog post, you deserve every kind word and you deserve friends that really care. Hang in there, we are all here for you.
Meredith
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